Well now, I told you the Thanksgiving season would fly by didn’t I? Those 23 days came, went, and BAM! here we are – Thanksgiving Day itself. Good thing you kept a Gratitude Calendar like I asked you to. You did keep one, didn’t you – the list of things you’re grateful for this season? No, you can’t have my list (who are you, that kid who copied off of others in grade school?) but I will let you read it:
- WordPress, which allowed me to schedule this post ahead of time so I can spend Thanksgiving Day focused on much more important things.
- Thanksgiving cards, purchased for family and friends before the torrent of Christmas cards pushed them off the shelves.
- Our son, visiting this weekend all the way from Colorado.
- Witnessing my beloved alma mater face Clemson on the football field (even if Notre Dame “didn’t show up”).
- Today’s extra hour of sleep, even if I couldn’t manage to sleep for an extra hour.
- Babysitting my granddaughter, even if she produced what I’d politely call a “blowout”.
- Making it to the car dealership safely on a suspect front left wheel.
- Repair of that wheel by mechanics who know a lot more about fixing cars than I do.
- A perfectly still morning with the dog and a cup of coffee before easing into the day’s activities.
- My mother, who was born on this day 95 years ago.
- My body, which allows me to continue the regular, rigorous workouts I enjoy.
- My wife, my endless source of love and laughter.
- The quiet, peaceful, safe community I live in (and utterly take for granted).
- A long-awaited rain shower, and hopefully the first of many.
- The many entertaining blog posts from my “online family”: those I faithfully follow and who faithfully follow me.
- The family and friends who keep us tied to our former years in Colorado.
- A perfect fall day in Colorado, allowing me to accomplish the many things I had on my agenda.
- The reunion of my wife’s family with her mother (a gathering that hasn’t taken place in over ten years).
- A visit with my Colorado granddaughters, and the opportunity to walk my eldest to kindergarten the following morning.
- A visit with my best buddy and his wife, and the realization our relationship will stay strong no matter the time or distance.
- The countless workers in the airline industry who make travelling safe, including the singing traffic cop at the airport crosswalk.
- The simple comforts of being back at home
- My brothers and their families, who I will truly miss this year as they gather together in Williamsburg, VA.
And… that’s enough for today. You should be focused on family and friends anyway, not blog posts. Wait – one more thing – a throwback term to mix in with your Thanksgiving spread: requital (with the middle part of the word pronounced like “quite”). A requital is a return or a reward for an act of kindness. Here’s how Beethoven used it back when he was still making music: As a slight requital of your kind souvenir, I take the liberty to send you some variations, and a Rondo with violin accompaniment. Fancy, huh? Now, go impress your guests around the table by using your new word.
Oh, and if you didn’t keep a calendar of things to be thankful for? Seriously, what are you waiting for? C’mon, get grateful already!

Enjoy the day! All the best to you and yours.
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Your list is detailed in just the right way that allows me to know you better. I like all your gratefulnesses [a word?] and hope your holiday celebration was the best. Happy Black Friday! 🖤
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Happy Black Friday! I forgot about that particular “celebration” in the middle of the holiday season. Maybe I should have a look at Amazon…
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That’s a great list!
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This list of items you are grateful for is sure heartfelt Dave. So many items revolve around family members, even your dog – I don’t recall you ever mentioning a dog. Get-togethers with family are high on your list of priorities as well they should be … friends as well, both longstanding friendships and blogging friendships and a loving tribute to your wife. As a person who has no living family members and has friends scattered hither and yon, I do envy you. I am grateful for my good health, like your #11. I never take it for granted. My friend Ann Marie gave me a “Blessings Jar” a while back. She made this simple gift. It is a mason jar with a lid and a ribbon tied around the jar. Inside is a small pencil and small pad of “stickies” to write what I consider blessings in my life. I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving with your son.
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Imagine the better society we’d live in if more people valued good health, Linda. I already knew you did with your untold miles of walks. A workout every day? A perfect diet? Too extreme. Instead, I subscribe to “keep moving” and “everything in moderation”.
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Yes, “keep moving” is right Dave. I hate that I sit as many hours as I do for work and again at night parked in front of my computer. I try to make up for that in the mornings and weekends. If you deny yourself treats and tasty food, you will end up overeating or eating the wrong foods.
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That is a wonderful list! Sounds like lots of extra time spent with family lately, something that is always taken for granted. I think your granddaughter felt extra comfortable around you 😉 I’ve never heard of thanksgiving cards but I am sure you are not surprised I already have my Christmas cards printed, Christmas stamps, and some customized Christmas address labels.
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Admittedly we’re ready to go with our Christmas cards as well (thank you, Shutterfly). Once you have the photos they make the production awfully convenient!
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As a matter of fact, I do keep a gratitude list–short snippets like yours, kept in a journal. Since March of 2017 I’ve written something for every day, for a total of more than 2,000 entries so far. The best part, I think, is reviewing the day to decide what to write, and realizing how blessed I am, even on the challenging days. Gratitude fosters joy!
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Ah, it’s a spectacular habit, Nancy. Your heart is clearly in the right place 🙂
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Thank you, Dave. I’m so glad I started that journal!
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Yay, comments are still open!! Happy belated Thanksgiving to you. I have not kept a formal list, but was thankful when we got the whole family together on the Sunday of Thanksgiving weekend. And thankful for the delicious food!
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Getting the whole family together is absolutely something to be thankful for. It used to be the norm for us, but now it’s a logistical challenge with our sons and their families living in different cities than us. Also, this comment made me think, suddenly, the Thanksgiving season seems like ages ago!
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