It’s Thanksgiving Season (#2)

So here we are, nine days into the Thanksgiving season already.  Didn’t the time positively fly  (even with the extra hour last Sunday)?  Have you already booked your travel to visit loved ones later in the month? Have you already made pumpkin pie (because you can never have enough pumpkin pie, so why wait until Thanksgiving Day)?  Whatever you’ve done for the past nine days, I’ve already hinted at the three “F’s” of Thanksgiving: food, family, and friends.  Now let’s add a fourth.

Not football.  Not fun runs.  The most important Thanksgiving “F” is full; as in “full of thanks”.  You are thankful this season, aren’t you?  If you joined my bandwagon from last week’s post, you already have nine reasons (or nine people) to be thankful for.  Keep that list going until the big day, band-wagoner.

Now that you know the four (not three) “F’s” of Thanksgiving, let’s visit five facts you probably don’t know about the holiday.  Here’s a morsel for your taste buds: the very first Thanksgiving feast probably included lobster, deer, swans, and seals.  PETA and I struggle with those last two, but the list stands to reason because we’re talking pilgrims and Indians on the coast of Massachusetts, four hundred years ago, making merry for three straight days.  Those flavorful “entrees” were abundant back then, with nary a turkey to be found.

Too cute to eat!

Remember last week’s mention of Abraham Lincoln making Thanksgiving a holiday?  That was in 1863, declared as every last Thursday in November.  Seventy-odd years later, Franklin D. Roosevelt moved Thanksgiving Day one week earlier to extend the shopping season during the Great Depression.  But some states pushed back on Roosevelt’s pushback so in the 1940s you had several years with multiple Thanksgiving Days (more turkey for everyone – hooray!)  Eventually the compromise was made as we know it today: one Thanksgiving Day, the fourth Thursday of every November.

My wife and I love dinner in front of the TV, don’t you?  But have you actually eaten a TV dinner?  You know, the frozen full meal in a box, with the tiny portions of generic food in the partitioned aluminum-foil tray?  Well, you can thank Thanksgiving for TV dinners.  Swanson overestimated the demand for turkey one year, and in a totally give-that-person-a-raise move, converted 260 tons of leftover turkey into 5,000 hand-packed dinners, complete with dressing, gravy, peas, and sweet potatoes, at a mere $0.98 a pop.  A year later they’d sold ten million of them.  Voila – the birth of the TV dinner.

Trivia question: What teams always play football on Thanksgiving Day?  Trivia answer: the Dallas Cowboys and the Detroit Lions.  Better trivia question: What teams first played football on Thanksgiving Day? Answer: Yale and Princeton way-y-y-y back in 1876.  I didn’t even know football was a sport in 1876.  As for games played on Thanksgiving Day, I would’ve guessed they started like, a hundred years after that.

If your Aunt Betty spends a little too much time at the holiday punch bowl and thinks it’s funny to start gobble-gobble-gobbling at your kids, you might want to remind her females don’t gobble.  Er, female turkeys that is. The signature Thanksgiving sound is reserved for the males of the species.  Female turkeys have been known to purr and cackle instead.  This is good information for your Aunt Betty (the purr , not the cackle).

Pay it “backward”

Okay, enough what-you-didn’t-know fun for today.  Let’s wrap with another nod to being thank-full (or, if you will, having “gra-attitude”).  I love this time of year because Starbucks gives away free coffee.  Okay, so they’re not really giving away free coffee.  Instead, drive-thru patrons continue the seasonal tradition of paying for the car behind them (and driving off quickly so as to remain anonymous).  I go to Starbucks more often just to participate (as payer, not payee).  So, for whatever you are grateful for, share that happy feeling with the people behind you in line.  Not a patron of Starbucks?  Doesn’t matter; any drive-thru will do.  So c’mon, get grateful already!

Some content sourced from the October 2023 Town & Country Magazine article, “14 Surprising Facts You Never Knew About Thanksgiving”, and Wikipedia, “the free encyclopedia”.

It’s Thanksgiving Season (#1)

Listen carefully… hear the clock a-tick-tick-ticking?  Better hurry up!  You’re already a day (or more) into the Thanksgiving season and you have so much to do!  “No Dave”, you correct me, “Thanksgiving’s just one day (or at most a long weekend) way-ay-ay at the end of the month… I still have plenty of time to prepare!”  No you don’t.  Junk that perception, online friends, because the times they are a-changin’.  I, blogger Dave, hereby decree Thanksgiving to be three weeks… and the season’s already underway.  So c’mon – get grateful already!

It’s fitting I’m writing this post on Halloween, “… the conclusion of spooky season…” as Lyssy in the City referred to it.  And isn’t it true?  Just like Christmas, the air goes out of the holiday balloon the very next day.  Cinderella’s carriage turns back into a pumpkin at midnight (ironically).  There is no “residual” spooky season on November 1st.  Halloween died the night before.

Retailers are determined to steamroll Halloween and Thanksgiving with the Christmas season, of course.  The artificial trees and decorations were available for purchase at Costco and Lowes this year before the Halloween candy even colored the shelves.  As I said in Third-Wheel Meal two years ago, Thanksgiving is fighting an uphill battle between the ever-expanding seasons before and after.  It’s like a sandwich with two massive pieces of bread but not much in between.

Thanksgiving is not just another holiday in my book; it’s a uniquely American holiday.  It’s the one we’ve been celebrating in the U.S. for 160 years thanks to the persistence of one Sarah Josepha Hale (who also wrote “Mary Had a Little Lamb”). Hale, along with Abraham Lincoln’s stroke of the presidential pen, made sure the holiday was “permanent… an American custom and institution”.  Gives this juncture in the holiday season a little more respect, wouldn’t you say?

Day-by-day gratitude

Like an Advent calendar, I propose we take twenty-three days to be grateful for what we have.  Open the little cardboard door on any given morning of November and the question will always be the same: What are you thankful for today?  Surely you can come up with twenty-three things.  Or how about twenty-three people?  Wouldn’t it be something if you told one person how grateful you are to have them in your life… every day until Thanksgiving Day?

Already on the shelves, sigh…

As with Christmas, it’s not the wrapping; it’s the gift inside.  Thanksgiving goes way deeper than turkey and football.  If you’re planning a trip to America and don’t know much about Thanksgiving, VisitTheUsa.com is not helping my cause.  The website reduces Thanksgiving into turkey and pie, Turkey Trots, parades, football, the pardoning of a single turkey, “shop ’til you drop”, and the travel challenges of a four-day weekend.  Really?  That’s the meaning of America’s Thanksgiving?

It’s not about this…

Maybe it would help if moviemakers and songwriters joined my cause.  I mean, think about it.  Halloween movies come to mind without much thought (with some, like A Nightmare on Elm Street, approaching ten sequels).  Hallmark churns out Christmas movies faster than you churn out Christmas cookies.  But are there any movies about Thanksgiving?  Well, yes actually, just this year we have Thanksgiving (the movie).  But please, don’t seek out the trailer.  This garbage has nothing to do with gratitude and everything to do with gratuitous violence.

or this…

I was going to make the same case for music. Halloween has you dancing to “Thriller” and “Monster Mash”.  Christmas has you “Rockin’ Around the Christmas Tree”.  There is no “Thanksgiving carol”.  But then I remembered Amy Grant’s “‘Til the Season Comes ‘Round Again” (my wife’s favorite).  It’s a song about Christmas, make no mistake, but you could argue there’s a little Thanksgiving dressing mixed into the first verse:

Come and gather around at the table
In the spirit of family and friends
And we’ll all join hands and remember this moment
‘Til the season comes ’round again

Get what I’m saying?  Take the next three weeks and find the true meaning of Thanksgiving.  Like Halloween, the treats will still be there on November 23rd.  Like Christmas, you’ll still have the stress of travel and getting things done.  Those holidays are about finding your inner child.  This one’s about finding your inner adult.  So c’mon – get grateful already!

Some content sourced from Wikipedia, “the free encyclopedia”.